Abandon that Project: How to keep quilting joyful

Abandon that Project: How to keep quilting joyful

You know all of those unfinished projects lurking in your cupboard stressing you out? 


I think you should abandon at least half of them.


Here’s why.


I believe unfinished projects, “UFO”s (unfinished objects), "WIP"s (works in progress), whatever you call them, are one of the BIGGEST hindrances to creativity for quilters. 


Here’s what often happens. We get excited about a new technique or pattern and we dive in. At the beginning, we’re loving it, feeling inspired, and having a ball. However, often we get half way through a project and realize the technique isn’t for us or that we wished we had made it in a slightly different way. 


Or you go to a workshop, learn a lot, then come home from it with part of one block finished and the rest of the quilt ahead of you. It then sits in your cabinet for months and months, unfinished. Sound familiar?


Then you feel like you HAVE to finish that project before moving on to the next, which can really stifle your creative flow. 


The solution: abandon that project!


I know this runs counter to what we’ve been told about finishing all of our WIPs, but hear me out. 


Quilting is not your job. We quilt because we enjoy it, it feeds our souls, it is cathartic, it allows us to be creative and express ourselves. 


It is not your job to finish every single project you start. If you try a new technique, and it’s not inspiring you, you are allowed to abandon it!


Letting Go 

It’s okay to let go of projects that are no longer lighting you up.


Some projects serve their purpose simply by teaching you something new or by showing you a technique you just don’t enjoy. If so, there is no need to slog through it just to finish a quilt you don’t care about. 


Instead, thank the project for what it taught you, and let it go. And I mean literally thanking it out loud-- it feels weird at first, but makes it a lot easier to let go of it, and practicing gratitude is always a beautiful thing.


You can “let it go” either by donating it or dropping it in your Experiment Bin (more on this in a minute) to be used in a different way in the future. 


Should it Stay or Should it Go?


Now I am by no means saying that you shouldn’t finish any of your quilt projects. Not at all.


There will absolutely be projects that have their ups and downs in terms of inspiration and excitement, but overall, you are excited about the project, and will feel fulfilled to see it completed. 


Abandoning everything you start can leave you feeling scattered and unproductive. You are spending so much time quilting with little to show for it. It’s defeating and deflating. 


So how do you know which projects you should continue working on, even when they are in a tedious phase, and which should you abandon? 


This is where I’d invite you to check in with your gut. When you pick up the project, do you feel expansive and excited about the possibilities and by what you still have to learn from it? Does is “spark joy” as Marie Kondo would say? If so, by all means, put some time on your schedule and finish that project! 


However, if you pick up the project and you get a feeling of contraction in your chest and the thought of finishing it makes you groan-- it’s time to abandon that project. Thank it for what it taught you, and let it go. 


Clearing out unfinished projects is SO cathartic and SO good for your creative flow. 


We talk about this a lot in Meander (our International online quilt guild where our goal is to grow creatively and explore lots of different quiltmaking styles and techniques), and lots of Meander members who’ve done this-- gone through their WIPs and let go of ones no longer lighting them up, have shared how freeing it feels. 


In the same way going through and clearing out your garage or spare closet and taking a carload to Goodwill or elsewhere to donate feels amazing. Your home feels bigger and you feel lighter. The same is true when you clear out physical space in your Studio. All of those excess projects and clutter are taking up a lot of mental bandwidth. 

Quilt “Experiments”

So how can you explore lots of different quilt-making techniques and styles without accumulating a huge stack of unfinished projects and without those periods of creative stagnation? 

Let me introduce you to the “Quilt Experiment". 


Whenever I try out a new technique, I start with an experiment. 


An "experiment" is a small or scaled-down project that you make before investing the time and materials in a full-sized project.


This is like the painter’s sketchbook. Monet didn’t only make large-scale oil painting after large-scale oil painting! 


He, like most painters, had a sketchbook. Before he began any of those lengthy projects, he’d first do a bunch of sketches and small paintings to work through ideas, try out a shape or a new layout, and figure out how he wanted to go about his next project. 


This is what MOST artists do! They sketch and experiment before diving into a big project. So why do we as quilters so often simply hop from big project to big project, skipping the “sketching/experimenting” phase altogether?


This makes it really hard to explore an idea, color palette, or technique fully. It also creates this start and stop momentum for our creativity, like we’re in a traffic jam.


The “Quilt Experiment” is an alternative to this. 


I keep a basket in my studio called an “Experiment Bin.” This is where all my orphan blocks, abandoned projects, and miscellaneous precuts go, as well as fabric I don't really care about. 

Then whenever I am going to start on a new "experiment," I dip into my Experiment Bin for that fabric! The adandoned projects can be used and get new life, and I can experiment with fabric that I don’t mind “wasting” in case the experiment doesn’t work out. I wrote all about my Experiment Bin in greater detail, here.


And I reserve those BIG projects that I know will be a big time investment for projects I know I’m super excited about and inspired by. 


This is a new way of working for most of us, but I’ve found from personal experience and by hearing from all the Meander members who have put it into practice, that it can allow us as quilters to grow creatively and as technicians so much quicker and so much more joyfully. 


So, give yourself permission to abandon projects! Clear out as much space for your creativity as possible. Experiment on a small scale before diving into a big project. And watch your creativity flourish.


Now I’d love to hear from you! What is your biggest takeaway from this article? What do you think about the notion of abandoning projects? Have you felt you had to finish everything you started? Leave a comment below! 


If you’d like to join a community of quilters from around the world who are constantly experimenting with and learning new styles and techniques, I think you’d love Meander. Learn more about Meander, here. 




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35 comments

Amazing! “Abandon the Project” is spot on. You have stated the problem as though you were with each one of us and proposed solutions that are helpful and, most importantly, doable.

I have so many UFOs. I had planned to finish them when I retired, but I have spent the first two years of my retirement fighting pulmonary embolisms. I not only have UFOs to quilt, but UFCs—-unfinished cleaning projects. I haven’t pieced anything more than a coaster for twenty six months. Being so far out from my original plan, I’ve decided that I need to rearrange my fabric storage and really access what fabric I have and what projects really must be done.

My problem is that very, very few of my UFOs make me groan. I spent so much thought and time in finding the perfect fabric and pattern that I genuinely still love them. I’m trying to figure out the most practical way to prioritize them that will also motivate me to get going on them when I am able. How does one overcome the additional procrastination that sets in when there is so much to be done? Is motivation the key or am I missing something? How does one find motivation that can be sustained?

Because I must lay down so often, I’m reading more quilting blogs and getting drawn to more patterns and techniques. That wouldn’t be such a good idea if I didn’t find the good advice and ideas I find in yours. It is obvious that I must live another century to get both my UFOs and WTDs (want to do’s) completed.

Constance P

The experiment bin not only gave my shelves some room, it freed my psyche so I could move forward with things I love to work on. I’m more productive than ever! Thanks Shannon!

Rebecca Roling

This makes so much sense and is such a practical and real life way of thinking about these things. It is important to try new skills and just as important to acknowledge when a project is no longer right for you. Thanks for putting this so well. Also, can you please share with me any information on the quilt in the banner? I love it and would be interested in making something like this for my boys. I find it very hard to find quilts that work well for young men. Thanks in advance! Jennie

Jennie Walz

This was a timely read for me. I have reached a point in my new collage quilt which is luckily an experiment sized project that I’m no longer inspired by. I realized it is messier to put together, more than I like.
I’ve decided because it’s small enough I’m going to see it through but I’m so so so glad I didn’t invest in the Heiney quilt project bundle and started a much much smaller version to see if I even enjoyed it .

april q

My guild did a friendship project. All 100 members were to make a block for each guild member, sign it And exchange. What really happened was less than half did it. The blocks were not all uniformed in size. And many were from members I had little to do with, while my closest members didn’t participate. Every time I look at those blocks I feel no joy. It will be difficult to put together. Then once done I will have a quilt from people I’m not close to. It languishes. For two years now. I’m going to abandon it. Thank you for giving me permission! Not sure what I’ll do with blocks since they are signed, but I’m done feeling guilty.

Kathy

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